[see June 20th morning post if you missed it...]
Miles has a plan, and he's sticking to it. Post-op day one was not like waking from a dream--he's having a full in-body experience. In control, negotiating the turns, adapting.
Biding his time through cycles one and two of chemotherapy, Miles rarely complained. He feels the difficulty, and when it escalates he will let you in to understand it if you listen. Miles is learning control and presence. He is teaching the same. We are thankful.
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Miles had a rotationplasty.
Why? Because it eliminates the primary tumor, stands up well to athletic activity, allows neuromuscular control over the joint, and has a relatively low rate of complications and revisions.
What is it? If you want a visual and realize the images can be shocking at first, click on the "rotationplasty" link above. Otherwise, understand it is 'a limb-sparing medical procedure performed when a patient's leg is amputated at the knee. The ankle joint is then rotated 180 degrees and is attached to the femur, becoming a new knee joint. This allows patients to have two fully functional feet, as opposed to losing one leg completely to amputation' [Wikipedia].
So, Miles' right foot & ankle have moved North. But it's his to keep. He feels it; he moves it. And it's got a new job to do: be a knee. Confused? Miles doesn't seem to be. We dare say this aligns with Miles' uniqueness. In fact, keeping pace with his positivity, we are comfortable identifying the "silver linings" in this new storm cloud. Above all is the emergence of Miles' pragmatism and strength. Along side are the fantastic conversations and bonds he is forging, both directly and among his family, friends, peers, and medical staff. What an opportunity as a parent to get to know Miles. A challenge like this squeezes out deep humors...serious, philosophical, heart-warming, thought provoking, funny, charming, articulate, and confident. This is an opportunity to learn and bond. We're seizing it.
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Now a salute to you. And you know who you are! You are mentors, family, friends, teammates, classmates, and colleagues. You are cooks who deliver us meals, parents who assist and transport our children, pals who pick up those items we overlooked, confidants who let us vent, dear ones who lift us with your words, professionals who promote awareness and raise funds, baseballers who shave heads, coworkers who paint toes, friends who send entertainment, and even a nine-year-old who unabashedly sells countless customized candies whatever it takes because supporting his bud Miles is elementary (#KeaneSweisz)!
Sincere thanks.
Very well said. Your positive, pragmatic and grateful stance is a lesson to all of us. You are accepting what it is and dealing with it. Love your heart and strength. We are all blessed to know you!
ReplyDeletePure grace. Inspiring. We are so glad that you're receiving the support you deserve, and reflecting it so admirably. The Cooper boys miss you, Miles and Louis. You rock! We hope to see you soon.
ReplyDeleteLove this kind of update. Way to go Miles! In trying times, a navy friend of mine always said, "Adapt and overcome." Looks like you already practice those words. Wishing you a speedy recovery and terrific summer! <3
ReplyDelete"Miles is learning control and presence. He is teaching the same."
ReplyDeleteIsn't it amazing that through such difficult times, a parent can learn so much from a child? May all good things find you, Jen and Matt, to keep you strong.
Miles, you are doing incredible things. Hero status achieved, my man. Keep calm and stay strong.
Matt, Jen, Miles and Louis we salute you right back!!!!! You have all taken the situation dealt you and shown every one of us that positive attitude, education, communication & faith can turn adversity around into an amazing life changing experience for the good! We are once again amazed and so so very proud of everyone of you. We can't wait to get to New Hampshire and get our arms around each & every one of you! Love you all to the moon and way way way way WAY beyond ❤
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ReplyDeleteGreat blog post. Miles is teaching everyone he knows some valuable lessons on this journey. his fnee is just awesome and his sense of humor is on point! Way to go kid.
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